Incredulity

It’s like you did something bad for once and it will stain your life forever. All the goodness in your life is erased and forgotten just in the blink of an eye. You do not even get the chance to bat an eyelid and there, you are condemned and thrown into the gutters. And, what’s the worse thing? The so called negativity might just be choosing not to voice out and raise any grievances… It’s almost equivalent to nothing?

I don’t understand what a huge fuss this can cause. Can’t one choose to keep to oneself at times? well, if the things said can snowball into something bigger or cause any unhappiness, it is my choice to stomach it and take everything in. What’s with the questions and incredulity? Just leave it at that will you? Forcing two ends to meet just doesn’t work because for one, characters are not magnetic poles. Opposites do not attract!

It is ridiculous how one’s mind works but everyone is in his/herself a different individual and you can’t just expect everyone to lap up your instructions and work as you deem fit. For one, humans are not robots. We are not programmed to carry out specific instructions without understanding and explanations. Why can’t people ever recognise that? There are some people who set out to change and modify their partners to be this perfect model they have in their minds but think about it, you might manage to change him/her now but is this forever?

The place is in a sorry state.

- PH